How I got my doctor to take me seriously

Friends, I hate “one simple trick!” stories, but this really is one simple trick.It’s not even a trick, really.

I discovered it by accident.

To tell you about it, let’s go back to 2014. I was starting to get serious about finding out what worked for me.

At that point, there were a lot of things I was researching: leaky gut, SIBO, whether a naturopath would be a good idea, if I could tolerate eating dairy.

I was also busy living my life. Appointments. Grocery shopping. Bus schedules. Jury duty. Friends and family. Overtime at work.

At a certain point, I was making notations on my Google Calendar so I didn’t forget.

“7:15 am Tuesday—weird poop. Did I eat cheese last night?”

It was getting hard to keep track of everything that I had done, and what might be contributing to my Crohn’s symptoms.

So I got a notebook.

They say that keeping a food journal helps track your gut’s ups and downs. I decided to try it—and I wouldn’t just track food, I’d also write down my meds, results of lab tests, and any advice that I got from my doctor.

Keeping it all in the same notebook meant that it would always be in the same place, where I needed it.

So the next time I went to see my doctor, I brought my notebook.

He looked at the notebook, and looked at me.

“I see you came prepared,” my doctor said.

Then we sat down to a deep conversation about my health. I asked questions that I’d never asked before, partly because I was confident—knowing that he was paying attention.

I’ll be honest. After a while, I stopped using that notebook. While having a dedicated health notebook seemed like a good idea at the time, it wasn’t a sustainable method for me.

(If you’re interested, check out what I use to track my health now.)

But I will never forget how much that little notebook changed the tone of that doctor’s appointment.

Where once I was talked at, I was now talked with.

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